One thing we should all be able to agree on here is that the young man is probably better off with those posters that show concern than those that think this is not a big deal let it go.
The lack of attention to character and responsible behavior is what fosters irresponsible behavior. Let it go is quite possibly the worst response.
The fact, that there are people moving him with him is proof positive that those around him see that he needs help. He needs help because there is a problem.
I think the folks with concerns win this one.
You know he doesn't know you or any of us, right? It doesn't matter how we feel about him, we have no control. we can say the nicest or meanest things and he will still do w/e he wants to do. Everyone has pretty much agreed he needs help, the only disagreement I see, is whether it makes him different than many other young people. A lot of young people do dumb things and most honest people will tell you that they did stupid things when they were young that would be seen as much worse than missing a call and flight. We all want him to get it together and prosper.
The true differences for him is the "world" is watching and social media. Some of the best players ever, did far worse than this dude. I don't like how he's acting, no doubt about it, but I know immaturity is nothing new.