I don't get the "his wife wants to live in NY" thing, because Boston is so close to the city, and the Hills have had plenty of opportunity to live in New York before now, and haven't. Logically, that story line doesn't make sense to me, and if the story is about his wife's career, I don't understand why Boston would be behind Phoenix.
To me it can make sense, marriage is about compromise (or so this single guy has been told

). I bet all Grant Hill's previous stops took into consideration Grant Hill's career first, the stops in Phoenix and Orlando were best for Grant. I can see the conversation going something like, Grant the last two times we moved it was what best for you first and me second. Now how about we make a move that considers me first and you second? You've had your chance to be the star and shine, now that your not a star anymore, maybe it's time we make a move for me. You still get to play basketball in a great city for a coach you like, and I can do more with my music.
Maybe some of the married guys can tell me:
If you moved your wife across the country twice for your career, and now contemplating moving again for a job, and your wife moved for you no problem both times before. But now your wife has a chance to take a better job and you can move for her and get a similar job to the one you have now, although the job you'd take wouldn't be as great as one in another city but still a pretty good gig. You'd have to consider now making a sacrifice for your wife who has made sacrifices for you, right?
And you guys talking about Grant Hill's wife trying to make it in music, come on now, she HAS made it in music already. Gold albums, Top 10 singles, nominated multiple times for Grammys, toured the US and overseas, been on magazine covers. Anybody who knows r&b knows who Tamia is. How much more does it take to actually make it?