There is so much said and presumed about people in this world, especially famous people, that you can probably find a way to draw just about any conclusion you'd want. Sometimes the evidence is overwhelmingly against the righteousness of a human being (eg, OJ, Hernandez...). But a lot of the time I think we like to make minor villains out of people who are just being human. I am very glad that my personal decisions have not been public because I've probably made mistakes, been selfish, been thoughtless and been embarrassingly wrong at times.
Lebron appears to be a pretty decent guy overall who, like most of us, makes some good decisions and some bad ones. Hopefully, he is nice to his wife, children, mother, neighbors, waitresses and barbers. That would matter more to me than what others speculate about how he treats Pat Riley, Dwayne Wade. or the fans of Miami.