Guys, I didn't involved with this this year for a couple of reasons.
1) The bickering
2) The level of subjectivity involved in the competitive aspect of the game
And to no small degree the level of which #1 was brought on by #2.
You can tweak the rules this way or that, but at the root of it you need to accept that this game is based purely on opinion. If you can't handle other people's opinions than you shouldn't get involved. For me it wasn't the opinions so much as the lack of a tangible scoring system that didn't make sense, so I got out. Roto and Fantasy teams make more sense to me, but if you can wrap your head around the limitations of this game there's no reason why you can't enjoy it for what it is. If you can't, just play.
It is a subjective game but I think the rules really can be tweaked enough to remove as much of the strategic subjectivity out of it. Hence my suggestions.
Make the votes public but not viewable until after the voting deadline to remove the ability of people to effect voting through vote tabulation.
Take voting your team out of the equation. It will mean people can't effect their own outcome.
Increase the amount of commissioners to put a stop to unnecessary bickering.
More expansive written rules to come up with answers for as many potential outcomes and questions. This is a young game. NFL football 2010 didn't have their entire rulebook written in just a few seasons.
I'm sure there's more but if these kinks can be worked out, I think it can remove some of the not so great stuff and even get you back to the game Redz.
Its true that it's a young game, but I think the problems we had this year and last (i wasn't in it the first year) were folks taking it too seriously and not backing down when conflicts started. believe me, Celticsblog is certainly not the only place this happens

I think the rules were the least of the problems --- but the easiest to correct, thus this thread. The tweaks are generally doable and i don't worry much about them.
Getting folks to "treat thy neighbor... as they would be treated" when diff. people have a diff. concept of that is trickier.
my 2 cents (and I don't exempt myself from these.....):
(a) folks should (must?) accept Redz point about it being a completely subjective game (that doesn't mean you can't compete, but that we're competing in diff. ways? or that the joy is in competing not necessarily winning) and
(b) GMs should try to behave and police each other (off list when necessary) rather than escalating things. It shouldn't be that it's the commish's job to police everyone and all the GMs (or the 3-4 who had problems) just run wild. No one is gonna want to be commish obviously.
remember UBUNTU? "I can't be all I can be unless you're all you can be?" we should all "be Ubuntu" during the draft, IMO. 
doesn't mean we can't razz folks, but you have to know when enough is enough, or who can take it, or if someone else is joking, nip things in the bud, agree to disagree, ask folks nicely to stop doing something if it's really affecting your ability to play/enjoy the game...etc. and yes i realize that "behave" is just about as subjective as the "winner" can be.

like i said, just my 2 cents
Ubuntu, Y'all!