I've been trying to get in better shape myself. I haven't been OVERWEIGHT by any realistic stretch, but I was starting to get a little too jiggley.
So, I've cut out virtually all beverages with sugar. No more soda, no more juice. I drink a crapton of seltzer water (which thankfully I like) and too much black coffee. But, no sugared drinks, it's way too easy to push back a couple hundred calories without thinking about it.
(I've even cut out beer for the time being!)
I've also cut out the mindless snacking. I just don't buy stuff; if there's a bag of chips in the house, I'm eating a bag of chips - so I don't buy them! I've also kicked out most sauces; like, what's the point of cooking boneless chicken breast, then adding sugary BBQ sauce? I just use a lot more plain spices in my cooking. Egg whites - boring as hell, but jack them up with smoked paprika? Negligible calories, and a nearly-pure protein jack. For me, thinking about flavoring food with spices, not sauces.
But, it's also the exercise side of things. I've never been in great shape, but now I just make sure to get on the exercise bike when the C's are playing. I find that if I'm STUDYING the teams, really focusing on one player with or without the ball, it helps distract me so that the time goes by quicker. I'm getting myself a bike soon (haven't had a good one since high school), and I'm starting to run a little bit. Just getting more physically active.
So far, though, mostly by cutting out on the sugared drinks, stopping most mindless snacking, and focusing as much as I can on "clean" proteins, I've been consistently shedding 5-8 pounds/week. I'm at goal, now it's a matter of just getting some consistency. I *want* to be able to have a few beers and not stress, which is why I'm trying to ramp up the exercise thing. My goal is to be able to run a 10k by the end of the summer - I'm about 9k away!
We're all in this together!