That clap thing seems like sour grapes.  If the center snapped the ball because the safety did or didn't clap his hands, that sounds like their problem.
As to the Pats, I see two things as being very true at the same time.   The team and in particular Maye are playing way better than I thought they would.  It is a fact that this team is better than pretty much anyone expected.  It is also true that they have had the easiest strength of schedule (per ESPN) of any team in the league.
I actually think a 3rd thing is true, they are a young team and are getting better bit by bit as the season goes on.  Assuming they can keep the majority of their key players on the field, I think they can beat anyone on any given Sunday.  They would probably not be favored against the top 5 or so teams, maybe even as many as 10, but they are right there.
That said, it would be nice if the OL could tighten up some and reduce the number of sacks.  12 in the last two weeks.  Maye has 3 interceptions and a fumble in the last 2 games.  The turnovers are on Maye, not the OL, but they are all connected.