Not sure why people think Ingles signing with Utah is a big deal. I know if my best friend at work got a raise but then I had to decide whether a great new opportunity with huge money at a new job was offered, I wouldn't be taking into consideration my friend or wanting to work with him. Sure my old job might offer me a raise to stay but ultimately, my decision would come down to what my wife and I thought was best for us and our children. I would be happy for my friend that he got a raise and hope he would be happy for me that I decided a new opportunity was best for me and my family.
Really think posters are putting too much emphasis on Hayward's relationships with Ingles and Hill. Hayward should be thinking what's best for him and his family, not that he wants to continue to work with his buddies.
Right, but if you were debating between leaving your old job, and your best friend said "Hey, I'm leaving also" it might make you less likely to stay.
No it wouldn't. People make their decisions based on the needs and wants of their families and themselves. If a co-worker decided to leave your company while you simultaneously were offered a huge new opportunity elsewhere at huge money or to stay at your company for matching huge money, you're telling me what's best for you and your family would be influenced by your friends decision to leave the company or stay at that company? Sorry Salty, I am not buying that.
Been in that situation twice, or at least similar situations. I decided where to work based on what was best for my family and their needs and desires and what was best for my career, not my co-workers decisions.
The thing is, you can't push your situation to apply to what others would do. Everyone has different set of need, wants, comfort levels, and levels of compromises... including that of their spouses.
So yes, co-worker you're good friends with does affect the decision at varying levels depending on the person.
Disregarding it outright is foolish to do so.