I feel like much worse things have been said. If half the things said in the heat of battle were tweated after a game the public would be appalled.
Had Villaneuva actually had cancer it would be offensive.
I feel like this is a case of Charlie's feelings getting hurt because he is sensitive about the disease he has. Well, even with the disease he's still a millionaire player in the NBA.
Wow - because he has a different disease, it's not offensive?
And because Charlie makes good money, he should be immune to being a human being with issues about his lifelong disease?
No, Charlie should be a man and approach KG one on one. IT happened in the middle of a basketball game trash talk.
I've heard and probably said worse things at my local pick up spot. IF i have a real problem with it, I go up to the guy and tell him he crossed the line (happened like twice in 5 years of playing there)
I don't go home and post it on celticsblog/facebook ect and then challenge the guy to an internet fight.
That's bush league.
I think there's really two separate issues, thats what people are missing.
1) did KG cross the line? (I , and apparently many others think he did)
and the completely separate
2) is Charlie V a spineless player for dealing with it in public and doing the ultra bush league "I want to fight him...hold me back!" move after the fact, and not as a man? (To which i also answer yes.)
Villanueva is not going to be able to get revenge on KG on a basketball court. He's not good enough with the body or the mouth. KG threw a low blow to Villanueva and Villanueva did the same in retaliation. He got back at KG probably the only way he thought he could. If he goes whining to KG after or during the game, he's going to look like even more of a baby to his peers.
you and me have different definitions about what it means to be a man and talk to someone one-on-one.
It's not a situation where you go up like a 10 year old and go "you big meanie!" and start acting like a spoiled child.
You go up after the game and go
"Hey man, just so you know, the cancer thing was a little overboard, I've got people in my life who died from that. I know it's a competitive game out there, but that's a little much"
and then you see what happens. If the guy acts like an moron, then fine, your the bigger man and he's a scumbag, and you move on with your life. who gives a flying pig if his teammates think he's hilarious or think your out of line. Those people don't effect my self image, there scumbags to if that's the case, and not worth the time it takes to think about them long enough to get angry.
but in my experience as an athlete, most times the other guy will go "sorry man, didn't realize i was crossing the line in the heat of the moment, my fault. we cool?"
problem solved, or at least addressed.