In fairness to the argument, Chris Paul often acts like a jerk. He postures. He struts. He throws himself onto the floor and laughs when he gets the free throws anyway. So he's not exactly deserving of respect.
If you want evidence of Rondo alienating teammates, look no farther than last year's playoffs against the Bulls. There were complaints about him being too much of a loner and he was popping off in the press about how it didn't matter what he did before the game or when he showed up. His ego does get in the way when he loses his cool. I'm just saying that's not the mark of a great point guard leader. He doesn't have to be a leader now while the veterans are in place, but it's hard to see anyone wanting to follow this guy.