am i wrong?
Yes you are wrong. It sounds like Rasheed was upfront with C's about how he was going to make the decision and that he and his wife would take some time with it.
Regardless of that - if Sheed takes his time and signs with someone else, we are screwed. I'm not reinventing the wheel over here, I'm just saying.
If there are, say 10 guys we want with the MLE (may be more or less, likely less) - and 5 sign in the next week, and Rasheed decides to sign with the Bobcats or whomever in 2 weeks, our pool of talent to sign will have significantly diminished.