I know the C's organization tries preach family so it's got to be difficult to not lay down a hard punishment and save face with employees' actual families. We as fans forget that the organization promotes inclusion of not just a player but their families. What do C's say to the spouses if they let this slide? Would it look like they could have enabled it or hid it if they didn't do a suspension on those families' eyes?
This is why besides legal reasons you don't want to have in company relationships that are out side of marital ones.