Family. We considered CA but with two kids decided that we wanted grandparents to be around.
I love this area. I’m almost not blind to it’s faults.
I’m also white. If I thought my kids were targets, I’d move.
That's interesting. I wonder what I'd do if I thought my neighbors (broadly speaking) were extremely racist. I suspect I wouldn't want my kids exposed to that. Even at TD Garden, I'm worried that my kids will hear some rough language (lots of F-bombs and heckling), but if I thought they'd realistically hear racial slurs I just wouldn't take them.
I've heard racist remarks in many places, but the only place I'd describe as "racist as f---" is South Africa. Among American cities, I'd say I've heard more inappropriate things in Charleston and Houston than Boston. Southie has some bad areas (hostile to pretty much anybody who doesn't live there), but parts of Dorchester can be pretty unwelcoming, too. Now, disrespect to the intellectually-disabled? Boston definitely leads the places I've travelled to in terms of use of the "R" word.
It’s not an all or nothing situation for our family. Our neighbors are nice, but we are a little less friendly with the loud ones (weird that some neighbors would fly a flag that means FU Biden). If they do that sober, what will they say after 6+ drinks?
I haven’t taken my little girls to Fenway or the Garden yet. I will prob start with a day game. They’re too young to hear some things. Also, my couch is comfy and they would prob rather go get ice cream then the logistics involved with sitting and watching a game for hours.
I’m not saying Boston is worse than other places. I’m saying that I believe these black players when they’ve faced overt racism, as I’ve also witnessed it. If you want to dissect his comment to try to poke holes (the most racist? Worse than Birmingham Alabama?), go for it.
I’m not offended by his comments, and those that have experienced racist acts first hand shouldn’t try to be defensive. I’ve def gone to ushers before to get drunk fans booted. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t. It doesn’t make sense to confront a drunk stranger, so I’m guessing this stuff will continue as people are nervous about retaliation. I love putting on a buzz at a game, but in an area known for alcoholism, we know that we can be better. English premier teams deal with this as well.