I agree with all that. I think BBD takes a lot of punishment, probably more on the landing than the impact, but a lot.
I disagree with the second part of this. Baby is pretty good at controlling his falls most of the time, as you'd expect him to, since he sees the impact coming. The only exception is when he either misjudges or gets hit really hard, and either cracks his head on the floor or otherwise lands awkwardly.
I'm just saying when he goes down, its on purpose. And that's flopping, right? You almost have to flop to take a charge in today's NBA.
Absolutely it's on purpose at least some of the time, and he'd be a fool
not to fall over. Big Baby holding his ground on a charge is going to put both himself
and the other guy at increased risk of injury. If he did his best to stay standing for charges, I'd be on his case for being reckless.
To extend moiso's analogy, this is why modern cars crumple up like accordions in crashes. To do otherwise is to risk turning the passengers into paste, because there is less room to absorb the impact. You either bend, or you break.
EDIT: and if this is "flopping", I think that the term is so broad as to become meaningless. I draw a clear distinction between some clown who flails all over the place after incidental contact, and someone who falls over backwards to minimize the chance of getting hurt on a charge. It's a nice coincidence that "flopping" on a charge might get you a call where you wouldn't get one normally, but it would still be the correct thing to do even if you didn't get rewarded for it.