I feel like a lot of people get the concept of "white privilege" twisted, and end up getting triggered as a result. I am talking about the people who feel that to acknowledge white privilege exists is equivalent to saying no white person had it rough or no white person had to work hard to get what they have in life. I personally think it is hard not to recognize that being born in the majority comes with advantages, just as being born in the country period comes with advantages. But just because you have an advantage, that does not mean you did or didn't work hard to make the most of those advantages. Think of a player like Steph Curry. He was raised by one of the best shooters of all time, and when it comes to trying to make a career as a basketball player, that is a huge advantage. But Steph still had to work hard to make his own name and become the player he is today. I think so much of this is about, at the very least, acknowledging these advantages exist. Instead, there are many that would claim the issue of racism is settled in this country, which in turn leaves many minorities feeling like they are being gas-lit. If we can acknowledge the issue exists, then that is the first step for brainstorming reasonable strategies for dealing with the issue.
Let’s concede for purposes of this conversation that being born a very poor black is more challenging than being a very poor white. Assume that the white has fewer barriers, in general.
What gets lost in the focus on race is that things change fairly dramatically when you change the class of one of the participants. A middle class black has more privilege than a lower working class white. But, that nuance is ignored.
A rich black man and a poor white man walks into a upscale store, both are dressed exactly the same, nothing fancy, just your everyday comfortable attire. Do you think they are going to be treated the same? You don't see the eyes and employees following the black man. You don't hear them telling him "those are really expensive" or them showing the least expensive thing in the store to him if he's "lucky."
You just proved the point and you don't even realize it! The black guy in your scenario had to HAVE more to be SEEN. You didn't even think about it before you wrote it because you don't actually care, as long as you don't have to accept the reality. A "higher class" black person has to be KNOWN about in order to receive that privilege. Your own example doesn't even have to do with race, it is income inequality, an entirely different problem within this context!
2 rich people, one black and one white still don't get treated the same at all times. Even rich black men have many disadvantages because of their skin color. So, sure, they have it "better" than the average person a lot of the time, but it comes from KNOWING the black man has the money! How many times have you heard of a middle class white man walking up to his own home or walking around in his OWN yard who have had the police called on him? Yea, doesn't happen.
When two people, one white and the other, a POC, are treated the same, without descriptions (money, good person, etc), then your made up world will be reality.
Also, you say an upper class black person has more privilege than a lower class white man as if that isn't a problem too. Not because one is black and the other is white but because we ALL should have a fair chance at a good life! If we are arguing income inequality, then I'm sure MOST people also see that as problem! Not that we all deserve to have money but that essential things shouldn't be reserved for those who have the money, ie, healthcare! I don't expect the LUXURIES of a rich person (yachts, big homes, fancy cars etc.) but I do think that access to good healthcare, schooling, and equal "everyday" treatment should be a given! The color of my skin should never be the defining difference in treatment!
Don't conflate income inequality with the privileged argument because it's two separate things in the context you used and what this discussion is based on, although, POC experience greater income inequality based solely on their skin color. Most people are against income inequality! Your example works the same if the middle class man was white and the poorer person was black! I'm laughing at you thinking income inequality is both nuanced and ignored... you're right, it's ignored by the rich and powerful (mainly white people)!