It was immature to video the guy, but I think it is very telling of us as a society, that we are more upset with the guy who taped, than the guy who was cheating on his fiance.
Your not the first person to say this.
But I don't necessarily agree. I'm not sure anyone is excusing what Nick Young apparently has done. But what Nick Young may have done, while horrible, is not my business. I don't care what someone else does as long as it doesn't affect me, or is illegal. Neither of those have any relevance here.
And I'm certainly not mad at Russell, neither of the criteria above apply here either. But, despite what Young did being worse morally, Russell did something that is a breach of trust, which in a team environment is really bad.
It's all about trust, plain and simple, and how can you trust someone who did what Russell did? It's easy for the players to still trust Young, what he did has no affect on the team. What Russell did does.
I mean, if Russell did this out some idea that he was doing right by Iggy Azalea, he would have done it in private. He was trying to make someone look foolish, and succeeded more than he ever thought he would.