I’m one of the guys that was bitter with Ray for leaving, but had no ill will towards Doc leaving. Why anybody would want the highest paid coach in the league, whose strength is coaching veterans, on a rebuilding team is beyond me.
Doc and the Celtics were like a couple in love. Sure just a year ago they were both saying we’ll stay together forever, even bought a house together, got a dog together, but then things changed throughout the year. The magic was gone, it was clear they didn’t have much in common anymore and were drifting apart. They didn’t enjoy hanging out with each other’s friends, they wanted to do different things and had differing opinions on where they were as a couple, etc.. Maybe one wanted kids now, while the other didn’t. Maybe one wanted a career change, while the other thought it was a mistake to give up a good job. Even though the warning signs were there a year ago, they both chose to ignore it because they were in love, and after all love conquers all, right? Well not this time, and the one just didn’t want to stay in a relationship that had lost its spark anymore and called for the breakup.
He says it was a mutual breakup. Even compensated her to help sell the house/take care of the dog/whatever.
She says, no you chose to walk out on me, Her friends and family back her up trying to argue with the guy over it whenever they see him out and hear him say it was mutual.
Finally a few months later, and he say’s you’re right, it was my fault, it was me who ended the relationship.
Like really, that’s what you’re going to focus on? I mean even at the time, many who knew both thought it was the best decision for all involved to part ways, yet some were hung up on who decided to call it quits, and be mad at the guy for that? Even though in hindsight it was clearly the right move for both, she’s even found someone even better who did the things she always wished her ex did, but you’re still mad at the guy for making the right decision for all involved?
That’s kind of how I view the Doc situation.