Well, if that is what Camby said, then I'd think that he made the decision that was best for him.
For Ray Allen's situation, Camby's words could be understood as - "What would my family think of me if I chose to stay in BOS and be dangled for a THIRD year in a row at the trade deadline?
To me, I'm sure Ray Allen thought of the fans - hence, his message in the Boston Globe.
But - as the popular saying goes - "To Each His Own."
Camby made his decision for himself.
Ray Allen made his decision for himself.