OK. Here are some of my thoughts, as best as I can articulate them.
First, about the veto procedure. When I implemented a change from Commissioner Veto to League Vote this season, I did so for a variety of reasons, chief of which was expedience. Over the past several years, this league has become more and more of a challenge for me to manage: policing inactivity, finding replacement GMs, running the rookie draft, tracking trades in the offseason, etc. While I agree that KWhit's suggestion has its merits, I'm simply not interested in having to poll the league via email for every single trade that's agreed upon between GMs, especially given the increased volume of trading. I'd much rather let the Yahoo! system do that for me.
However, as Roy points out, the Yahoo! league vote procedure works differently from our original policy (requiring only 1/3 of the league to veto, rather than our policy of 1/2). I didn't foresee this policy change, and it should have been discussed more fully before implementation, as we usually do with all rule changes. Given this, I am not sure how to move forward.
Speaking generally about the trade, I had hoped that opponents of the deal might have simply allowed the veto process to run its course, but instead, the message board quickly devolved into spurious accusations, profanity, and general incivility. I don't expect everyone in a 20-team league to all be friends, or even get along, but I had hoped that everyone could settle their disagreements like adults.
This has been a great league, offering lots of fun and camaraderie for me, but of late, it's also become a source of increasing frustration and anxiety. I am hoping that we can all determine a course of action that will allow us to move forward in a way that everyone can feel good about. However, while I sincerely hope that everyone will continue participating in the league, I do realize that some fences may not be so easily mended. I hope that we all will make a sincere effort to do so.
I am unlocking the boards, although I think this is a fine place for discussion.