you know another thing i was thinking...we are way past a doc pep talk...way past a ride in the duck boats...way past a trip to rome...way past a phil jackson zen-like move...getting upset, angry, whatever is not going to change anything or solve anything...sometimes you just have to play through it...there is no easy and quick fix...the thing that just brought it all together was remembering a scene from fever pitch when jimmy fallon sees youk, damon et al sitting at a restaurant and laughing after a heart-breaking loss...it's time to chill and ride out the storm...i mean what are doc and the players going to do...get more upset...get more angry...get more frustrated...for what?