i'm sorry but all this whining, crying, pouting, excuses, finger pointing et al has to go...need i remind anyone what real tragedy and suffering is like...guess what...this team needs to grow up and act like "big boys"...i think this is called "enabling" in pyscho-babble terms...actually someone else might call it maturity...you know what they do...just like everybody else in this world...deal with it...in the immortal words of Alec Baldwin from "Glengarry Glen Ross"..."You're excuses are your own"...