I took the Jordan comments totally differently. I think he was comparing the Miami big three to a bunch of kids on the playground setting up a stacked team. Three guys who are purposely setting up a scenario to play together.
I think Jordan is/was calling them out and saying they cant get it done on their own like he, Larry and Magic did back in the day. Not sure what his reasoning is, but that is how I take it.
Jordan, Bird and Magic all had huge ego's as well. They were Loyal to the organizations they played for and the organizations were to them. The teams they played for would do just about anything to keep them happy and the league supported that. No one dared be less than loyal for the most part, it just wasnt done.
I promise that if Magic had left the Lakers as a free agent and said "Larry, if you and I will take a smaller contract, we can play on the same team together", the whole NBA would have screamed collusion and there would have been lawsuits, lockouts and protests.
Today it is no big deal. No level of behavior is too outlandish for these guys.