I don't consider you a racist. I just consider you a grumpy old man before your time.
you don't even know me... i'm a happily married, father of 4 children who is very happy in life (involved in my church) and in the education field. i'm not "grumpy"...just don't like what basketball has become. i LOVE hockey, as i've really gravitated to the sport over the last few years and attend a number of Tampa Bay Lightning games each year (live in a suburb of Tampa).
I was a fan of 80's basketball, and fell in love with Larry Bird...that era of basketball was a joy to watch. David Stern is trying to appease the younger crowd, and all the while, he's is destroying the game.
that doesn't make me "grumpy" as you presume...i just don't like what's happening.
Glad to hear that you're a happily married family man (so am I). But I'm not sure what that has to do with any of this. I do think there are two different issues here. One, you don't like the hype of the "new" NBA (i.e., the hip-hop music, etc.). I too would prefer to filter out a lot of the noise (music, fake crowd noise, etc.) during games. But overall, I think complaining about the "hip-hop" culture of the NBA is just sour grapes. You're guilty as charged on the grumpy accusation.
But your other issue is the quality of the product on the court. There's no question that some of these guys often lolli-gag through the first 3 quarters. But part of it is that human beings couldn't possibly maintain the intensity you see in a college game for 48 minutes/night and 82 games a year. The season is just too long for that kind of intensity. So, yeah, you have a point. You could call it a flaw in the game - but there's no way you're going to see the league cut the number of games - that's just more revenue lost.
Another thing I will say is that NBA athletes make the game look easy, which can make them seem less intense at times. Yet at the same time, these athletes are capable of athletic feats you don't see anywhere else - that's why it's worth the price of admission, even if they coast some of the time.
Anyhow, I think you have a fair point about the quality/intensity of the games. If that bothers you, fine. Doesn't bother everyone. But your disdain for the hip-hop culture of the league and its marketing seems like a non-starter. But more than anything, your "family-man" line seemed out of place (not out of line or offensive, just out of place).