I believe that it is up to the offended party to decide if something is racist and if those offended believe something to be racist then the offending party should attempt to act better rather than convince the offended party they are wrong.
Interesting. So, is the Black Lives Matter movement expected to act better with respect to all those people who consider them inherently racist?
I think it recently has become en vogue for racist people to point the finger back at minorities. I've seen white people who don't receive the level of white privilege they are accustomed to cry racism (this is not racism, imo). I don't believe that white people can ever be viewed as the aggrieved/offended party in the US, because it is easier to be white than it is to be black in America.
So I guess I would amend my statement to say that it is up to the majority to behave better when the minority talk about instances in which they have been the victim of racism.
BTW, TP for turning my previous statement on its head.
And I've seen black people who think getting the short straw in life is racism. That isn't it, either. Except guess who gets to say what is what, and you can't really call anyone out according to your definition. Because white privilege, and also it's tough being black.
My definition includes minorities getting to decide what is racism and what isn't. Allowing those in power to decide what is racism is a recipe for racism to get worse not better.
Do you believe that white people are subject to the same racism as blacks and hispanics? Even if white people can be subject to racism, we are much more often the perpetrators than the aggrieved. Since minorities are at the very least more likely to deal with racism they should be the judge of what is racist.
When black people draw the short straw in life isn't that more often than not due to institutional racism. With the wealth you are born into determining a lot of your opportunities growing up, doesn't it make sense that black people would start behind, because they originally came to this country with no wealth as tools for white people to become more wealthy?
Throwing up your hands and saying I guess no one can decide what racism is, is a way to ensure that racism not only endures but flourishes.
Too many people (most seen on twitter) think a black person calling out racism against them is a racist act. We can't entertain the idea that identifying racism is in fact a racist act.