What? Those quotes are absurd. Why wouldn't you want to reach out in a way you know will get through to the player? Being stoic and oldschool is grand but if it isn't what will sway Dwight Howard what is the point? And, please, offering 17 years of The Heat as the "right way?" Throwing outlandish welcoming parties for their Big Three, catering to their desires, worked. But it is embarrassing for LA? Quit the hypocritical moralizing.