I understand that feeling TOT, but how do we know he's not doing that anyways, in the form of stuff for his kid?
I dunno, I've just seen too many bad mothers and fathers use their kids in power plays for money to judge much beyond what the courts say should be paid. To me, it's up to Bosh to be a good dad, pay whats obligated at least, and to put his kids first, and to keep any personal garbage between him and the woman away from his kid.
But, I'm a childless unmarried 28 year old guy, what do I know of such things?