Welcome to CelticsBlog fashion week!
Who cares about his hair? I don't, I'm sure he cares more than any Patriots fan about the failure against the Jets. It's hurt the team and Tom is the leader of the team.
This time of the year it's the Carnaval, and his wife is brazilian, so what's wrong with enjoying some days in Brazil? If Thanksgiving was in april, and his wife were from California, would you blame him for spending some time in the West Coast?
His relationship with his wife is a private thing, and I find it weird to say he doesn't wear the pants because he's wearing a ponytail. First, long hair is a traditional sign of manhood in certain cultures, and second, we're not talking about big decisions in life, we're talking about aesthetics, so he better please his wife than a bunch of fans.