The heartache and pain is unbearable for allot of us including myself. I have cursed, lashed out, badmouthed our boys that fought to the very end and literally scared my guest.
Seriously they got wide eyed and ran to their cars when I started throwing furniture and cursing inaudibly.
Now that I've calmed down it's important to realize that this was a basketball game and thats it.
Today someone buried a loved one. Somebody lost a job and someone's house got foreclosed on. Today someone found out they had cancer and someone lost a battle to cancer. Someone got paralyzed in a car accident. Somebody was mugged. Somebody was raped.
Yes the grief and heartache is bad and I'm just as guilty as anyone but any of the above would love to trade places with any of us if they could. All of the above would love to have our little trivial basketball problem if they could just have one more chance at something far more important.
No matter how bad it seems, just be grateful for what you've got. There is always somebody who would trade places with you in a heartbeat if they could.
Later. It's been great.
Bret
Topic: Dealing with the grief (Read 1659 times)