not to sound like a jerk, but this is why u shouldnt spend money u dont have. its one thing to have a little credit card debt, but having over 10k and now being jobless.....well, maybe you will learn from this experience and make wiser choices in the future
Easy to say unless you've been there DL. I can't speak for the OP's case but I was there, and it wasn't because I was unemployed or spending copious amounts of money on stupid stuff. It doesn't happen overnight, but it does happen easily if you can't keep up with the monthly payments.
My advice would be to nip it in the bud before the collectors come after you. Go to a bank and see about consolidating your debt, or contact a collector yourself. You need to get off the revolving rates etc...You'll never catch up that way. Your credit rating's already trashed so I wouldn't be concerned with what this will do to it.
The credit card companies want to get paid, but they can't get water out of a rock. They will work with you, but you need to cut the head off the snake and get rid of the credit cards.
Anyhow, I feel for you. I've been there, and it was scary.