This whole business has been handled badly by Stevens and Wyc and whoever else is calling the shots these days.
Granted the big markets in NY and LA will do anything to improve--with all the media pressure on those teams.
Nobody really knows what the coach did, and so it's difficult to pass judgement.
It appears as though the Celtics have certain rules about girls and boys mixing in their organization, and that those rules, however. prudish, were broken, though we have no information about any penalties for the other party or parties involved. Do other teams have such rules? I can attest that certainly isn't true in corporations. It seems ridiculous to hire a bunch of sports women in a sports organization, and not expect there will be some fraternization. Especially with a bunch of very rich players.
The management sure did screw this up, because the players are not happy. You don't want that.