Sorry to digress even more and go on even more of a tangent with more random thoughts..and maybe a bit silly to say
This just really resonates with me, someone turning 30, who's been told all the time in my formative years that work and money are only things that matters, and I've been chasing that. And now I feel so empty and sad, and the people who told me that just look so unfulfilled and sad and don't even act like functional human beings...
As such, a part of me now kind of scoffs at the stories about people going 110%. Like for Kobe - would he have had a better career if he just got along with Shaq, by not being so hardcore all the time? Would he have been less injured if he dialed it back? More balanced between the ears? Who knows. Not to say he didn't do a lot of good stuff on and off the court - because by all accounts, again, he did.
And then I look at a guy like Boris Diaw who's been sipping cappuccinos and wearing flip flops to ace vert tests and not trying hard. Would he have thrived had he gone in harder? Or is it in his DNA to be laid back. The Spurs had all their players do presentations on a current affairs topic - maybe Diaw just needed this kind of culture to thrive
The biggest counterpoint to this (aside from Kobe) might be LeBron..who's playing at an all star level at, what, 38? A career in the NBA and the lives of these physically gifted individuals are probably a much different animal from my silly little quarter-mid life crisis though lol
So rooting for Harden's success just to validate some of this. Guys like Boris Diaw and Pierce. I should probably turn elsewhere for life lessons though
Everything in moderation maybe...and different strokes for different folks - I'll concede the odds are against Harden somewhat with how much he seems to party