I think if you're a young man who thinks the reason they can't find someone they're attracted to that they can hang out with is because women are exposing inherently misogynistic dating paradigms and outright but accepted (by men) sexual harassment disguised as 'perseverance', then you probably have bigger problems.
As others in the thread have alluded to, it's about communication, and loving yourself. If you're in a good place, with an open mind, I don't think women dating on their own terms is going to do anything but help you find a companion. It's not like women have stopped dating. Have you guys heard of college? It's...if you're not there now, it's worth waiting for. Just don't be a resentful entitled jerk when you arrive.
I met my wife outside of a bar 14 years ago with her walking up to me and saying, 'You're tall'. Every other serious girlfriend I'd had before then was one I'd pursued and initiated stuff with, and I was absolutely terrible at picking partners. My wife picked me and I like her most of the time.
TL,DR: If you're scared that women beginning to date on their own terms (because that's what is happening) means you'll be arrested for flirting or asking someone on a date, you're doing it wrong. If you think you don't have to have an open mind and it is the world's responsibility to help you find happiness, you're going to be sad a lot. Don't fall into that trap. The world is a cool place, don't be scared to let it in, and don't be scared of changing with it, if that's what needs to happen.