I've been thinking about this thread and have held off commenting because I've been somewhat cynical in my thoughts about it and didn't want to be negative, especially when all the thoughts here are well-meaning.
I guess I am just hoping that no one in a position to do something about this (league-wide or with the Lakers) is acting quickly -- regarding a "fitting" broad-based commemoration (beyond requisite moments of silence and good wishes to the family). This is not like the loss of a 77 year old ex-commissioner who had been ill for a few months, sad as I'm sure that was for his family. The Bryant deaths are an unfathomable tragedy for a family -- Kobe's wife, children, his parents -- these people have lost a father, husband, child, sister, grandchild... suddenly, with no warning, young people gone. Never mind the tragedies the other 7 who are just the "other 7" to us, but are similarly loved by their families -- these people who in time will be known only as people who died with Kobe Bryant.
My thought is just to let it be for a while. I can't imagine that anyone in Kobe's family is anywhere near ready to be comforted by a commemoration of Kobe. Obviously, I could be wrong about that -- but that's my thought. The commemoration idea may "comforting" to the rest of us who have experienced a little shock, a little loss, a small jolt of harsh reality. But my guess is that those who really knew and loved him and his daughter are in shock. I would think that discussions of 24s on sneakers, or black (or purple/gold) stripes, or retired numbers, etc are background noise at most -- not meaningful.
Maybe/probably down the road when the family can begin to make some sense of this and perhaps create something positive with regard to the memories a league or Laker commemoration will be something that they'll find comfort in.
I realize this is just a blog thread with really good ideas that Kobe's family won't be reading -- no harm in it at all. I just hope that those in the position of doing something are allowing some time to pass before applying gestures or organizing public ceremonies that might be too soon for the family.