Go back and watch one of the very intense playoff games from the 80's, Celts vs Sixers or Celts vs Lakers.
Players hardly say a word to the officials and these are Conference Finals and NBA Finals with hated rivals. It's kinda strange to watch. Those 70's and 80's legends like Mendy Rudolph, Earl Strom, Jake O'Donnell, Darrel Garretson, Hugh Evans, on and on usually didn't look like former athletes, but they had a feel for the game that the current group of Stepford officials do not. I'm sure there are exchanges going on at times, but it is rarely demonstrative. I remember reading a story about Bird and Earl Strom going back and forth at each other with Strom matching Larry profanity for profanity. But it was brief and neither made a big show of it.
The NBA of the 60's, 70's, & 80's - when men played the game.