I get that these refs are performing poorly. I don't blame them, as they were under-trained and stuck in a horrible position to succeed. In most cases, they're doing the absolute best they can considering their training and experience.
I blame the League for being outright stubborn and power-hungry AND I blame the refs' Union for being selfish and unreasonable (a union's job, right?). The League and the Union both need to give a little to bring this to an end. Simple enough solution, yeah?.
However, the ONE OUTRIGHT CRIME I take away from this whole "debacle" is the media once again creating a firestorm and beating it to death every single minute of the 24-hour sports news cycle.
The media (and now fans too) are soooooo busy berating and criticizing the replacement officials that they seem to have completely forgotten that the regular officials made mistakes like this ALL THE TIME.
John Clayton mentioned today both the illegal Immaculate Reception and the never-explained Tuck Rule, both of which decided playoff games. Ed Hochuli is a terrible official, and has outright apologized in the press for blowing calls that affected the outcome of games. What about the Calvin Johnson touchdown/incomplete pass in Game 1 of 2010 against the Bears? Directly affected the outcome of the game.
The fact is that regardless of who is officiating, mistakes are made and coaches/players/fans/media will always complain.
I think what this issue truly reveals is how much the media loves riding on its high horse and how quick players and coaches devolve into uncontrollable bullies on the field, beating up each other and attempting to intimidate officials.
The one thing the replacement officials need to get right immediately is controlling these animals. Personal fouls and illegal contact with the refs is running rampant, and the officials need to start penalizing heavily and/or tossing players from games.