Jsaad...
I just figured out what your "Comment" was.
You think that's bad? That's NOTHING. Check this out...
I have a nutty stepfather who use to hate me, because we had nothing in common. When I was 13, I had low self esteem and was a bit anti-social. When I would visit my mother in Florida, I would basically hang around, go swimming and play video games. He didn't understand why I wasn't out chasing chicks, has no interest in girls and didn't like to party. Seriously, the guy had no respect for me, because I was just a goofy 13 year old.
Flash forward 11 years. I was having a conversation with my mom on AIM (I live in Seattle and she lives in Florida) and she was asking me about the girl I was dating. The girl was pretty darn cute and I sent my mom a couple pictures of her. She then proceeded to freak out about how "gorgeous" the girl was and said, "hold on... I have to show Fred (her husband)". So suddenly my prick step father is talking to me online and says, "Show me the blonde!". At this point, I felt like my mom had overhyped the whole thing. I mean, the girl was a cutie but she wasn't Jessica Alba or something. So I felt the need to temper his expectations and undersell it. What would you do in this situation? Here's what I told him.
"Haha... I mean... she's not that hot. It's not serious... just some chick I'm banging... haha... but here is the picture." I sent him the picture. He proceeded to give me many "WOAH! WELL DONE MY MAN!! WELL DONE!!" comments... and I felt great joy in my catch. Lol...
Guess what?
You can probably see where this is going...
I left the [dang] AIM chat window open. I had the girl over that night. She slept over. In the morning, I went to make breakfast while she used my computer to surf the net. We had plans to go boating that day. She had been excited all week about going boating (since she didn't know anyone with a boat). It was for Seattle's "SeaFair"... so we were out on the water all day swimming in the lake and watching the blue angels fly over our heads. She seemed a little distant the entire day and I couldn't figure out why. She was a little passive aggressive with me and I couldn't figure out why. Finally when the day was over and we were heading back to the house she said something along the lines of, "too bad I'm not that hot and just some chick you are banging."
She proceeded to ball her eyes out. I tried to explain to her the whole stepfather/son relationship and to take it into context, but it was way too late. I broke her heart. I've never felt so bad in my entire life. Seriously. Never felt so bad. That was exactly one year ago yesterday (Sea Fair was yesterday). Haven't seen her since...
Your fiance SERIOUSLY needs to get over that entirely innocent comment. That was NOTHING.
Completely different story, but related...
I spent three years living with an ex girlfriend of mine (completely different girl... yeah I know... i have some pretty big disasters in my dating life and I'm only 26). I was playing with some game on her cell phone and did what any other guy would have done... I started checking her text messages.
... I found a bunch of text messages between her and some mexican co-worker (who was married) where he was basically saying he wanted her to send nude pictures. Her response was something like... "haha... if I send you nudes it will not be what you expect... I'll be covering my important areas." and he responded with "deal."... I was pretty angry about the thing, but we were able to keep that disaster relationship going for at least another year after that. Certainly had a long talk with her, but we worked it out... Lol
Edit: I have to keep adding to this, because I can relate to it too much. I guess I had blocked out a lot of these memories. Now that I think about it, there was another incident with the same girl from above. About a year prior she was working at a completely different place with a completely different co-worker. We both used the same computer and would use Trillian to chat. If you're not familiar with Trillian, it's basically a program that lets you chat on AIM, MSN, Yahoo, ICQ and IRC all at the same time. Well I didn't realize it at the time, but Trillian keeps logs of every single conversation you've ever had on it (unless you keep the default settings). So again... I did with probably 80% of the guys on this forum would do... I started reading her chat logs. I know it was the wrong thing to do (probably have a bit of jealously and lack of trust as well... but in the interest of honestly I'll admit it was just too intriguing an opportunity to pass up). So I start reading her AIM conversations and find some conversation with this fellow named Brian that she works with. At one point she asked him specifics on umm... how well endowed he was. Again, that one was tougher to bring up, because I felt a little stalker-ish, but still... you gotta take that stuff in context.