I think the company sounds pretty good, and she made it seem like there was room for advancement, although I feel like they all say that. I run out of my parents insurance at the end of september when my temp job expires so that is kinda like a double whammy deadline. So we will see, I guess I was wondering like if she comes at me with a certain figure do you think its legit to say, "Im taking a pay cut off my current job, I need at least___" and see what they say.
Oh yeah, it is absolutely legit to do that. If they can't offer you more than they do, they will tell you, but I would always recommend trying to negotiate. Although I would recommend doing the negotiating with HR rather than the actual hiring manager if you can.
I disagree with much of what people have given for advice in here, and given the economy and the fact that we are talking salary, the stakes are very high. I have negotiated every single begining salary I have gotten. And that included a 10% increase to an offer when I seperated from the military. I wasn't qualified, and I had been interviewing hard for 3 months with nothing I deemed acceptable. It takes balls, but only a fool would take an initial offer. It is ALL IN THE WAY YOU ASK.
Additionally, I think I have strong negotiation skills. I do it all day, every day in the defense industry. Multimillion dollar contract negotiations, it's **** awesome!
Now for my specific advise... This is a stupid thing to say "Im taking a pay cut off my current job, I need at least___" and see what they say.
Right there you made it an adversarial negotiation, and you set an ultimatum, and I don't think that was your intent anyway! "I need at least this", says to the employer, "do this or else". There is a time and a place for this type of negotiation, but in your situation it gives you no advantage what so ever.
90% of the time a salary negotiation for a new job should go EXACTLY like this...
Mr. Johnson I have taken some time to consider your offer and spoken at lenght to my wife, friends, family etc. As I said at our last meeting I'm very excited about the opportunity to join the team at ABC Company and as time has passed and I have continued to reflect on our last meeting my excitement has only grown as I have considered how my strengths align with the details of the position that you have shared with me. ***if they gave you a particular challenge they think you can help attack, or a void they want you to fill you should mention that specifically and how amped you are to go at that project with all you have***
(so far you have reminded them that you are thoughtful, excited, a team player, and you have reminded them of your strengths, and maybe a specific problem you are going to tackle, you are reminding them of the
VALUE you will bring)
***back to the moment of truth, don't worry it is easy***
As I had mentioned before I am currently employed. Based upon my current compensation and the total compensation package that ABC Company has offered I was wondering if there is any way you can get me to $XYZ starting salary, if you can do that for me I can sign your non disclosure agreement, (or contract) right now.
*** What you did here was ASK, not demand. But most of all you did not say, I NEED this. The entire wording here is key, you want to rehearse the entire thing. You MUST remind them that if they can get you there you WILL SIGN IMMEDIATLEY. When a company decides your the one, you have way more leverage than you think. If you negotiate like this you will not put them off, you may even encourage them to "help you out" to get you where you would like to be. They likely have a budget, and they will have it or they won't. But you gave them the end game, you promised to sign if they got you there, you communicated to them that there is no bs after this step.
But not to worry. The important thing is you did nothing wrong, they will come back to you. They will likely say well we have a budget and blah blah, but they will probably say they will look into and call you back. You say "Great Mr. So and So, I really appreciate it and I really look forward to hearing back from you, I'm excited to join the team".
When they counter, you weight the offer. They may give you your asking price, or counter with the same offer, or something in between. No matter what you thank them for looking into it and do what you think is best. If they didn't give you everything you wanted but you take the job, your demeanor is all happy and thanks mr. so and so, i'm really happy to come aboard.
Good luck buddy!