You can find a ton of stories like this about Jordan. You can find similar ones of curmudgeonlyness about Bird, Barkley, and tons of other 'heroes'. If Bill Russell had twitter and ustream and mybook and facespace, I bet there would be stories about him too.
Theyre great men, not because they're tactful and kind men. They may also be tactful and kind, but that's not why they're heroes.