If I found one thing frustrating on the blog this season, it was the tension and in-fighting between the self-labeled "realists" and the "optimists".
I hope that those "realists" can now acknowledge that, in fact, their point of view was no more realistic than anybody else's. In fact, the "realistic" point of view is looking more and more like a half-empty, pessimistic one. The pie-in-the-sky optimists have been proven right, at least so far.
I think there's a lesson here: we should never believe that our own point of view is the only one with any validity. We should try to have respect for all viewpoints, and should accept that absolutely nothing is a guarantee. If we all could have kept that perspective, this probably would have been a lot smoother season for all of us.
(This isn't an endorsement of the "optimist" point of view, by the way. People can believe whatever they want about the team. However, it's the labeling of others -- especially in terms of those self-labeling themselves as the only "realistic" voices -- that is unacceptable to me.)
roy, kudos for posting this. i actually wanted to create a thread on this very topic but figured the staff would say i was labeling others, starting trouble, or creating a thread that would lead to something not beneficial to the blog. so thx for starting it.
i was so sick of being told that i was naive, blind optimist,wearing green glasses, not being a realist, not being objective, kool-aid drinker, and a bunch of other things, so much so that it made me not want to post much.
the team showed glimpses throughout the season that they had "it". i also fully understand that they underperformed and had somewhat of a disappointing season. but for those posters to label me and others the aforementioned things based on my logic of the team was better suited for the post season, and if certain things happened in the post season (playing more consistent, defend better, rebound, bench contribution.....and get healthy!!!), that this team still had a shot, well sucked!
certain individuals were so sure they were right about the teams future performance and they were just wrong. the truth is, no one knows the future and to be so dismissive of others' opinions/thoughts on events yet to occur shows a lack of being open minded and leads to uncomfortable discussions. i think most people, virtually all, on here want the team to win. however i think there was/is a very small percentage that wanted the team to fail for the ability to say they were right.
in any event, im glad to have been able to vent. root and support the team and if you are going to post here, be respectful of everyone's opinions, especially if they have good intentions. i get fired up from time to time and know im not exempt from some of the same criticism i am giving, its human nature. but to repeatedly be shot down, spoken down to, making one's opinion seem less valid or important....sux and makes people not want to post much. its ignorant and unkind.