Tried to get in to Fallout 3 and Oblivion several times but I ended of giving up after about 12 hours played on both.
Is there anything in this game that would make someone like me like it?
Hard to answer. What do you mean by "someone like me?"
I get motion sickness playing 1st person shooters (I think my tv screen is too big). But my favorite games are Fallout and Oblivion. So I play them entirely in 3rd person instead. For sniping I might switch to 1st, but 95% of the time I play in 3rd person. Perhaps this is something that might let you enjoy the game more?
I love New Vegas. It's fantastic. One major beef though - I haven't done a single mission for the main quest, and I'm already level 25 (hard difficulty). The level cap is 30. I'll be completely maxed out by the time I finish the side quests and start the main quest. The amount of experience earned is completely unbalanced. There should not be a level cap on this game at all. Not when you can play it for 150 hours with one character.
From a game design perspective there has to be a level cap. Because the HP of enemies and type of enemies levels up with you unlimited leveling leads to unbalanced and bad gameplay at the end.
Your weapons and armor are of static strength but your attributes and enemies keep going up. In Oblivion its very easy to get to the point where enemies have so much health that you have to use silly perma-invisibility or other broken spells to kill anything.
Fallout is setup so if you do everything you'll run out of levels. So multiple play throughs are something people should do.
I mean really your complaint is they made the sandbox too big!
You lost me with the Oblivion analogy. Enemies on there did not keep getting tougher. I grinded up my character so much that I was one-hit-killing every single enemy in the game. I had my sneak, acrobatics, speed, strength, etc - all near 100. Enemies peaked at much less than that. It was like playing in God mode. Maybe you're remembering it wrong?
I disagree that the sandbox is too big. The sandbox is great. But they've made it so that I'm going to stop progressing as a character less than a 3rd of the way thru the main quest. Sorry man, but that's indefensible.
Dragon Age, Mass Effect, Oblivion, Two Worlds - none of these RPGs had this issue. Even Fallout 3 didn't (level 30 would happen about 75-80% of the way thru the main quest). This was lame design, hands down.