Is she avoiding me, or 'really,' busy? Just wondering what you guys think.

[Eja117]

Sounds to me like she had multiple chances.

[mgent]

It's interesting how the responses are split almost 50-50 between "try to communicate with her" and "try to deliberately be even worse at communicating than she is".  Would love to see a demographic breakdown of each side.

Literally laughing my ass off at this and Redz' response.

[mgent]

It's interesting how the responses are split almost 50-50 between "try to communicate with her" and "try to deliberately be even worse at communicating than she is".  Would love to see a demographic breakdown of each side.

I still say keep it simple. All these examples may work for other guys who ignore the chick, but they may be smoother with the women or they may be better looking then the OP.

The OP should just ask her to call him to go out for a drink when she's less busy. That way he's not completely ignoring her. If she blows him off, then so be it. And if she was actually busy, then no harm was done by not over crowding her with nonsense.

This post gave me 2 interesting thoughts.

1.  We need a picture of you with the woman in order to determine the likelihood of her juggling you with another guy(s).

2.  Maybe you should get her drunk and then she'll probably spill the truth.

[hwangjini_1]

after reading the 4 pages of this thread it is painfully obvious that the male members of cb have absolutely no Edited.  Profanity and masked profanity are against forum rules and may result in discipline.ing idea in hell about how to work a relationship with a woman.

this thread is truly a case of the blind leading the stupid.

[zubi.anaba]

I always follow my instincts. If i start to get the hint she aint interested or etc!! I am moving on to the next. Way too many women out there to be stressing yourself over one particular girl. Just end making yourself look sad and desperate. Women are all to willing to take advantage of a dude like that

[Granath]

after reading the 4 pages of this thread it is painfully obvious that the male members of cb have absolutely no ****ing idea in hell about how to work a relationship with a woman.

this thread is truly a case of the blind leading the stupid.

But it is quite entertaining for those of us who know better or for those of us who have been married for 30 years and don't have to know better anymore.

[crimson_stallion]

after reading the 4 pages of this thread it is painfully obvious that the male members of cb have absolutely no ****ing idea in hell about how to work a relationship with a woman.

this thread is truly a case of the blind leading the stupid.

Please, oh mighty lord of women, enlighten the world's men with your great wisdom.

 

[Ogaju]

after reading the 4 pages of this thread it is painfully obvious that the male members of cb have absolutely no ****ing idea in hell about how to work a relationship with a woman.

this thread is truly a case of the blind leading the stupid.

Are you suggesting it is one size fits all. Because if you are you are WRONG. Relationships are dynamic and not static. Your post suggests you may be one of the (fill in the blank).

[Ogaju]

after reading the 4 pages of this thread it is painfully obvious that the male members of cb have absolutely no ****ing idea in hell about how to work a relationship with a woman.

this thread is truly a case of the blind leading the stupid.

Please, oh mighty lord of women, enlighten the world's men with your great wisdom.

 

Exactly, TP !!!

[colincb]

after reading the 4 pages of this thread it is painfully obvious that the male members of cb have absolutely no ****ing idea in hell about how to work a relationship with a woman.

this thread is truly a case of the blind leading the stupid.

But it is quite entertaining for those of us who know better or for those of us who have been married for 30 years and don't have to know better anymore.

Especially if you have a daughter over 20 looking for marriageable men. Most of the posters here are relatively young males.

Not much hope for the OP in any case. Move on.

[Redz]

I always follow my instincts. If i start to get the hint she aint interested or etc!! I am moving on to the next. Way too many women out there to be stressing yourself over one particular girl. Just end making yourself look sad and desperate. Women are all to willing to take advantage of a dude like that

hopeless romantic alert 

[Eja117]

after reading the 4 pages of this thread it is painfully obvious that the male members of cb have absolutely no ****ing idea in hell about how to work a relationship with a woman.

this thread is truly a case of the blind leading the stupid.

Are you suggesting it is one size fits all. Because if you are you are WRONG. Relationships are dynamic and not static. Your post suggests you may be one of the (fill in the blank).

Well of course one size doesn't fit all, but some sizes are a bad idea

[Eja117]

Mrs. eja has concurred he should let this one go.

I also want to add that it sounds to me like it's possible she is too good for you. I mean did you tell her that she's really wanted? Did you tell her that she's the one? Did you tell her that it's gonna last forever?

Then according to Bryan Adams you never really loved this woman.

In which case it shouldn't be a big deal.

Bryan Adams is silent on the concept of casually texting in order to maintain a relationship. When a woman says she's busy you show up with Chinese food cause she's studying and leave 10 minutes later. You don't wait a few days and text again.

You need to go back to romance school before you try this again. You may need to suffer through some Julia Roberts movies, which is fate worse than death, but having no woman is fate worse than that.

[gift]

Mrs. eja has concurred he should let this one go.

I also want to add that it sounds to me like it's possible she is too good for you. I mean did you tell her that she's really wanted? Did you tell her that she's the one? Did you tell her that it's gonna last forever?

Then according to Bryan Adams you never really loved this woman.

In which case it shouldn't be a big deal.

Bryan Adams is silent on the concept of casually texting in order to maintain a relationship. When a woman says she's busy you show up with Chinese food cause she's studying and leave 10 minutes later. You don't wait a few days and text again.

You need to go back to romance school before you try this again. You may need to suffer through some Julia Roberts movies, which is fate worse than death, but having no woman is fate worse than that.

You may have just strung together the most profound sequence of words ever written in the English language.

[Redz]

Mrs. eja has concurred he should let this one go.

I also want to add that it sounds to me like it's possible she is too good for you. I mean did you tell her that she's really wanted? Did you tell her that she's the one? Did you tell her that it's gonna last forever?

Then according to Bryan Adams you never really loved this woman.

In which case it shouldn't be a big deal.

Bryan Adams is silent on the concept of casually texting in order to maintain a relationship. When a woman says she's busy you show up with Chinese food cause she's studying and leave 10 minutes later. You don't wait a few days and text again.

You need to go back to romance school before you try this again. You may need to suffer through some Julia Roberts movies, which is fate worse than death, but having no woman is fate worse than that.

from Summer of '69 to I Will Be Right Here Waiting For You, Bryan Adams tells it all